
Its that time of year when upcoming college graduates are starting to freak out that the time has actually come to enter the “real world.” Lets be real, most of us are definately not ready for this transition…or for some, this giant leap!
When I was a Freshman at BU I thought 4 years would seem like an eternity. But looking back, I can still remember skipping many of my large lectures and regretting it when exams came around…attending parties where you maybe knew the 3 people you came with…and wondering when things with school would actually get any easier! Now looking back, its hard to imagine that getting a job seemed so far away and now it is just around the corner!
Last week I accepted my first job. It was not my first offer, but it was the first one that I had actually accepted. Its hard when you get offers, you think of all the pros and cons…and unless its the job you have been searching for your whole life, it really is hard to make that decision! I’m still not 100% positive about what I want to do with my life…so eventually you just have to take that leap right?
My job entails eventually becoming a buyer for a major company. Believe me, if you know anything about me…shopping is one of my MAJOR downfalls. I just figure why not put it to use at a company that NEEDS me to shop for them right? The salary (at $38,000) was not all I had dreamed for, but being a Marketing major I knew my first salary would be much lower than someone graduating with a Finance degree from the School of Management.
It took me a little while…but I really realized that money isn’t everything. The job was something I knew I would be good at. It is a really reputable company. And everyone I had talked to loves it there. It took me a while to come to grips with the money, but in the end I realized that I would rather be happy with my job and get paid less…than be miserable and making a ton of money (which is why I chose Marketing in the first place!).
My advice to and you of out there looking for jobs (and believe me…I know it is NOT a fun time to look for jobs!):
1. Don’t give up – No matter how frustrating the application process may get, something will come around. And if you accept a job and don’t love it…don’t worry! Most people don’t stay at their first job for life anyway!
2. Apply everywhere! — Although this may not seem logical, I have found out that only a few of the companies you apply to will even look at your application. You want to get yourself out there as much as possible. And so what if you have to go to a million first round interviews, it just increases your chance that you will get a second round interview!
3. Weigh your pros and cons — This is important. Like I said, the money aspect was hard for me to get over…but in the end I realized that money was not everything. You need to look at more than just the short run…consider also what you want for the future. Would you rather be happy and get paid less? Or unhappy and get paid more? If you’re very lucky, you won’t have to make this decision at all and you will get paid a TON at a job you love!
4. Don’t let people make your decision for you – For a while I got sucked into listening to my friends and family too much. Don’t get me wrong, I value their experience and advice a great deal…but in the end, the decision is yours and only yours to make.
5. Don’t get hung up on an offer you might let go – There is no point in looking back. If you turn down an offer because you think it isn’t for you…you have to move on! Having regrets won’t help you in the long run it will only hurt you. Move on without the regret, there was something about the job you didn’t want. So even if you end up without a job when you graduate, at least you won’t be stuck in a job you didn’t think was right for you.
6. Don’t let graduation freak you out – Don’t make rash decisions just because graduation is around the corner and it feels like everyone else around you has a job! THEY DON’T! The market is so bad right now that I know some people at my school that accepted jobs in the Fall and have had their offers revoked because the company just can’t afford to take on new employees! Many people are in the same boat…don’t think your the only one!
This is some of the advice that I have learned that I hope many of you can use as you move forward into the “real world.” It won’t be easy…but its just another step in your life, and like the past 4 years of college — it will probably go by much faster than you ever imagined!
Also, make sure to check out our college/university groups! Many students that attend the same school as you may have some advice to get you through!
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